CHURCH OF THE LIVING GOD
WEDDINGS
Dear Engaged Couple:

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!

Marriage is a Holy Ordinance of God and should not be taken
lightly.  Church of the Living God is committed to helping you
make your marriage all that God desires it to be.

Premarital Questionnaire. In order to commit to performing
your ceremony, a Pastor need to have reviewed and discussed
your questionnaires.

Please complete the questionnaire as a couple or
individually. Return and submit the form as
soon as possible online.

We no longer quote fees for services over the telephone.
                  The following is a summary of our beliefs on marriage.

1. The Bible teaches that a Christian should marry another Christian. (II Corinthians 6:14).

2. Marriage is a commitment. A wedding is a very happy and joyful time. It is a time of
celebration, but it is also a very serious time. You will be exchanging vows of promise                 
and commitment.

Ecclesiastes 5:5 says it is better not to make a vow to God than to make a vow and then
break it. A couple should consider very carefully their willingness to keep the marriage
vows in the marriage. Marriage is not based on emotions, but on commitment. The Bible
states, until death do you part.

3. A wedding is a celebration of worship. Not only is a marriage a Christian marriage, the
wedding ceremony should be a Christian celebration. There are two approaches that
can be taken in the exchange of wedding vows.

    The first approach is using the vows that available in our
    book of wedding vows. These vows are very personal
    and very Christ centered.

    The second approach is you may write your own vows.
     These vows you will not repeat, but share with each
     other.  These vows should also reflect a commitment to
     Jesus Christ and a life long promise of commitment to
     the marriage. Because a wedding is to be a Christian
     celebration the music selected for the wedding is very
     important. I require that music being used edifies Christ.

    Remember your wedding is a testimony to others.

4. Counseling prior to marriage is very important and highly recommended.

The Bible says, in the book of Proverbs, "in a multitude of counselors there is wisdom."

                                            Each of you has your own unique personality,
                                            backgrounds, and views. The purpose of counseling is to                         
                                             assist you in understanding yourself and your                                              
                                             marriage partner. It is better to spend more time and money                      
                                             understanding your future spouse in counseling, rather than                   
                                             spending more money and time planning the ceremony.